Many people live in a constant state of longing.
Longing for love.
Longing for wealth.
Longing for healing.
And while longing feels spiritual, even noble — it’s often the very thing keeping your desire out of reach.
Why?
Because longing assumes separation.
When you long, you admit:
“I don’t have it.”
“I am not it.”
The Law of Assumption invites us to leave longing behind and step fully into living — the kind of living that flows from the state of the wish fulfilled.
Longing Is Lack in Disguise
Let’s be clear: longing is not wrong.
It’s human. It’s raw.
It’s how many spiritual journeys begin.
But if you stay in longing, you’re unknowingly affirming the absence of your desire.
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“I wish I had a partner.”
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“I want more money.”
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“I hope one day I’ll heal.”
Each statement reinforces the not-having.
Desire is holy.
But longing is the echo of a belief that what you want is far away.
Suggested further reading: “Accepting the Gift: Desire as Divine Instruction”
Shift: From Wanting to Being
So how do we shift?
By moving from “I want” to “I AM.”
This doesn’t require force or pretending.
It requires being.
Being the person who already has what they used to long for.
Feeling the end result — now.
Not because of evidence, but because you’ve chosen to live in the assumption.
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The one who is loved… feels it now.
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The one who is wealthy… thinks from it now.
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The one who is healed… lives from that wholeness now.
This is the art of Living in the End.
Suggested further reading: “Living in the End: The Art of Becoming What You Desire”
The Energy of Already
You’ll know you’ve shifted when:
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You stop checking.
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You stop needing signs.
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You stop reacting to the 3D.
Why?
Because you know it’s done.
Because you’ve moved from seeking to embodying.
The energy of “already” is subtle but powerful.
You’re no longer asking if it will happen.
You’re remembering that it already did.
And you’re letting the outer world catch up.
It’s Not Acting — It’s Becoming
Don’t confuse this with acting as if.
We’re not playing roles.
We’re stepping into identity.
Neville said it clearly: “To assume a state is to embody it.”
This is not performance.
It’s permission.
Permission to be the person you truly are — the one who has already received.
Suggested further reading: “You Do Not Attract — You Become”
Final Word
Longing has its place.
But it’s meant to be a doorway — not a dwelling place.
When you feel yourself longing, pause.
Not to suppress it, but to recognize it.
Then ask:
“What would it feel like to already be the version of me who has this?”
And begin to live from there.
Because that shift —
from longing to living —
is the very bridge to its fulfillment.
